Let's have a little conversation here about the 9th commandment, "You shall not bear false withness against your neighbor". Because Christians are *really* bad at this one sometimes. Some of us, anyway. And, it's easy to slip-up, frankly, without even realizing it. When we *do* slip up, it's easy to justify to ourselves.
When I was a kid, I assumed, because of the word "witness", that this really only applied to what you said in court. It *does* apply to that, but it's a lot bigger than that. "Bearing false witness" is saying something untrue. But it's really something bigger than that, even. A true witness only says what they *know* is true. They don't pass on things that might have happened, speculations about a person, or what they heard from someone else. This has all kinds of implications for what we do and don't say, and really tends to cut down on gossip, but in my opinion, this is the biggest: We look on the outward appearance, God looks at the heart. Therefore, we have no business making definitive statements about a person's belief/unbelief, a person's motive, or the intentions behind an action unless that person has told us those things. Anyway, what we know so far is that if we're obeying this commandment, we won't say things we know are false *or* things we don't *know* are true. And there's a corollary here: Nothing you read in an e-mail forward is true. EVER. Obviously, that's an exaggeration, but I'm firmly convinced that there is *zero* correlation between e-mail forwards and what is true, *especially* if they relate to politics or religion. So unless you've looked up those things on snopes, wikipedia, or some other real source of information, don't pass them on.
So, a false witness says or repeats things that are untrue, or things they don't know to be true. There's two ways falsehood can be "against your neighbor". The obvious one is false accusations, but the other is just lying to your neighbor - if someone asks you for directions, you don't know the way for sure, and you give them directions, they may get lost or worse, because of you. Both types of false witness are wrong, and there's no exception clause for "I thought I was right". Don't bear false witness.
This means it's our responsibility to know *what* we know, and it's our job to humbly tell people when we *don't* know. We Christians frequently fall into the trap, however, of believing that since we've found the truth about Christ (even though we didn't find it, but He found us), we have some kind of uncanny, magical ability to measure how true something is with our gut, our feelings, or our instinct. But God hasn't given us that ability, an unfortunate fact that shows up in several disappointing ways. It shows up when we tell people evolution is a lie, even though we don't have a science degree, and our hobby is watching sports, not reading biology. It shows up when we say President Obama doesn't believe in the same God we do, even though we don't know the man, he claims to follow Christ, and we can't see inside his heart. It shows up when we tell someone we know *why* they did or didn't do something - whether or not we turn out to be correct (and usually, we aren't).
If you've seen the movie Bambi, you may remember Thumper repeatedly needing to be reminded, "If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all." I think we as Christian need to take that statement, adapt it to, "If you can't clearly explain how you *know* something, don't say anything at all." Because right now there's a lot of Christians being poor witnesses by saying things that either aren't right, or that they don't know are right. And part of what that means is we need to recognize that being "sure something is true" doesn't mean it is true. It's complicated, but we should aspire to know enough about the world to know where we do and don't know about the world. And then, if we're going to be good, godly, and honest witnesses, we won't speak with certainty on things we don't or can't know. Like Paul, let's keep the emphasis on what we know.
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